I came across this beautiful quote from Anne Patchett's memoir "Truth and Beauty" on the Happiness Project blog:
"I knew then it was just too enormous for me to manage and that worrying about her would swamp me. If I was swamped by worry, I would be useless to her. It was even possible that I would desert her, and that was the thing that could never happen. I decided that night I would take all the hourts of my life that could so easily be spent worrying and instead I would try to help her."
That's it. That makes sense. I can't afford to feel all down about myself, boohoo, I'm living in two worlds and all of that. Not when I can take that time and that energy and do something *wonderful.*
Random Emacs symbol: planner-multi-read-name-multiple-prompts - Function: Read multiple pages, completing based on FILE-ALIST.