What do I want to do with my life? Is it worth the trade-offs? How can I make it more worthwhile?
If I’m clear about the meaning of my life and I know that it’s worth the challenges (like travel!) along the way, then relentless optimism will kick in and show me the silver lining to whatever happens. =)
So, what do I want to do with my life?
I want to share what I’m learning. This matters because it means other people can build on what I’ve figured out, and maybe they’ll be inspired to share what they’re learning, too. I don’t need travel in order to share, but travel helps me learn from other people.
I want to help figure out how people can connect and work together all around the world. This matters because I want people to be able to do their best wherever they are, not limited by the geographic lottery. Someday I’ll be able to do this without travel. Right now, sometimes I need to be there in person.
I want to live an awesome life. This matters because I can train people to do most of what I do at work, but I can’t delegate love or experiences. I worry that travel might get in the way of this, but if I learn how to do things better, maybe I can use travel to enrich life.
What can I do to make travel better for work, relationships and life?
- I can lighten W-‘s load. This could include arranging for cat sitting or dropping the cats off at a cat hotel, doing extra chores before/after the trip to share the workload, taking transit or a cab, and so on.
- I can meet up with more people and sit in more meetings, like the wonderful times I had in Cambridge and in London.
- I can try different kinds of food each time, and make more of an effort to get to restaurants with great reviews.
- I can take my gym clothes along and use the exercise facilities at the hotel. This might mean checking in, as my carry-on is often tightly packed with electronics and travel-ready business clothes. Who knows, maybe it would be great to bring along a folding bicycle. Mel Chua does that. =)
- I can skip watching television or old movies. If I didn’t think it was worth finding and watching, then it’s probably not worth watching just because it’s there. I can spend the time writing or reading instead.
- I can fill my iPod with interesting e-books and audiobooks. Time to go through the classics I haven’t read yet…
- I can wake up earlier, since I don’t need to worry about disturbing anyone.
- I can set up a calling card, or pay for the Net connection.
Hmm… I just need to figure out how to look at this, and then everything will move more smoothly.