As an experiment (and because the timing works), I have a three-month break coming up. It’ll be quite a different experience from the 1-month breaks I’ve been taking so far, probably as different as the way that having an entire weekday to yourself is different from squeezing your activities into an evening. So I have a few questions to think about:
- How can I make the most of that time?
- With the answers to that question in mind, how can I make the most of the weekdays I have until then? How do those activities compare with working a little more from August to September?
- Considering the most likely situations, how would I like to adjust my work/discretionary-time balance?
It got me thinking about what I actually do during my leisure time, and why. Oddly enough, despite the ability to spend lots of time reading and writing, I still end up writing at roughly the same rate I did back when I was working full-time. Some days the words flow freely and I queue up a few posts, other days I’m casting about for ideas. My reading has shifted a little, and for the better (I think). I doubt I’d have had the patience to read philosophy and reflect on it slowly back when I read in the evenings and the occasional weekend.
Aristotle writes in the Nichomachean Ethics on the topic of why we choose what we choose:
But that [virtue and vice] are concerned with the same things might become manifest to us also from these considerations: there being three objects of choice and three of avoidance–the noble, the advantageous, and the pleasant together with their three contraries, the shameful, the harmful, and the painful–in all these the good person is apt to be correct, the bad person to err, but especially as regards pleasure. (1104b30)
It might be useful, then, to reflect on these leisure activities and figure out how they stack up against Aristotle’s objects, along with some notes on how adding more time to these activities makes sense. This will help me make a decision about the months leading up to November, and for after the break (depending on how things turn out).
- T: Well-served by additional time
- N: Noble
- A: Advantageous
- P: Pleasant
|T||N||A||P||Activity and notes|
|T||N||A||P||Work so that I can develop my skills and reputation, help people out, make a difference, and enjoy excellence; More time = better skills, more help, more appreciation|
|T||N||A||P||Write or draw what I’m learning so that I can understand, remember, and share; More time = more application and sharing, and better skills too|
|T||N||A||?||Spend time with people (online/offline) so that I can appreciate other people’s interestingness; More time = more opportunities to get to know people|
|T||N||A||Copy, review, and apply my notes so that I can learn more; More time = deeper understanding and application, more connections among ideas|
|T||A||P||Tidy up, take care of chores/errands, and cook so that we have a smoothly running household and so that W- feels wonderful; More time = cleaner and smoother-running household, but possibly diminishing returns|
|T||A||P||Learn Latin so that I can read and enjoy older works, and so that I can enjoy learning; More time = more practice, but constrained by memory|
|T||A||P||Learn Japanese so that I can enjoy listening to anime/podcasts and reading tech news/blogs; More time = more practice, but constrained by memory|
|T||A||P||Bike so that I can exercise, get somewhere, and save money; More time = more explorations|
|T||A||?||Go to meetups and talks so that I can learn and meet people; More time = more knowledge and connections|
|T||A||?||Build simple furniture or fix things around the house so that I can make/repair things that suit us (haven’t done this in a few years, but worth revisiting); More time = better DIY skills|
|T||A||?||Work on Emacs so that I can learn more, customize it better, and help others learn; More time = more knowledge and resources|
|T||A||Finish projects so that I can reduce mental clutter; More time = more stuff done|
|?||N||A||P||Exercise so that I can become healthier; More time = fitter, but constrained by gradual training program|
|?||N||A||Read nonfiction books so that I can recognize and articulate ideas, and so that it prompts thinking / writing. More time = more reading, but application may be better|
|?||A||P||Have a massage so that I can learn more about my muscles; More time = more relaxed and more aware|
|?||A||P||Draw what I’m watching or reading so that I can practise drawing people and so that I get more out of the movie; More time = better drawing skills|
|?||A||?||Read social media updates and interact with people online so that I can maintain connections and learn from people’s lives; More time = more interaction|
|?||A||Read and write e-mail so that I can help or learn from more people; More time = prompter replies|
|?||A||Balance my books and plan my finances so that I can make better decisions; More time = better prepared, but possibly diminishing returns|
|?||A||Sew so that I can make or fix things suited for us; More time = projects, better attention to detail, improved skills|
|?||A||Research and buy things to improve our quality of life; More time = wider awareness and better decisions|
|?||P||Play with the cats so that I can be amused and so that I can appreciate them; More time = happier cats|
|?||P||Garden so that I can slow down and enjoy watching things grow; More time = more attention, but limited by knowledge and conditions|
|N||A||P||Cook at Hacklab so that I can connect with people and learn new recipes; More time = more elaborate or consistent meals, but limited by frequency|
|N||A||Simplify our things so that I can practise detachment and resourcefulness; More time = simpler life|
|A||P||Read blogs so that I can get a sense of other people’s lives and challenges; More time = greater awareness and possible interactions|
|A||Do paperwork and plan ahead so that we can minimize risks; More time = better organization, but diminishing returns|
|P||Watch movies so that I can spend time with W-, accumulate more in-jokes, and enjoy other people’s work; More time = more shared experiences|
|P||Watch amusing videos and read fiction/blogs/analyses online so that I can appreciate other people’s brilliance; More time = more pleasure and appreciation, but limited value|
|P||Play video games so that I can appreciate other people’s brilliance and enjoy figuring things out; More time = more pleasure and appreciation, but limited value|
|P||Sleep so that I am well-rested; More time = an excess of sleep|
Hmm. Tabulating and sorting it like this is actually pretty useful. I can see why work is so tempting for me, despite the opportunity to do other things. It is an opportunity to work towards and practise nobility/excellence through work; it is advantageous in terms of resources and reputation, which contributes to safety; and it’s pleasant, especially when I get a chance to do some rapid-prototyping magic or some custom analytics.
Writing and drawing are less clear and more self-directed. But they are useful techniques for working towards nobility; they are advantageous both in terms of the content and the skills I develop; and both the process and the results of figuring things out are pleasant. If I spend more time and attention on these things, I can improve my ability to observe and articulate. It may take me years to get the hang of these skills, but they are good to develop.
I can develop both writing and drawing in the afternoons and evenings, but I do notice a difference in attention. I usually watch movies in the evening as a way of spending time with W-. This is okay for slow and light writing, but does not lend itself well to study, deep reflection, or application. When I worked full-time, I generally wrote in the evenings (sometimes before dinner, sometimes shortly after) or on one of the weekend afternoons. I like writing on weekday afternoons, now. I like the pace. Would I pick that over consulting? Yes, actually, depending on what kinds of tasks I’d work on. I can put off writing when there are important and time-sensitive tasks to be done, but writing is also important to me long-term, and I’m willing to take on a little risk in order to experiment with it.
Hmm. If I do two to three days of work a week–maybe even four–from now to October, while leaving at least one full day for writing, that’s probably good. I can front-load the writing, since that’s important to me. If I feel it could use more time, I might adjust what I work on. I’ll spend the usual time cooking and taking care of house-things, although I might spend a little more time during the week to cook fresh dinners. I can use the three-month break to experiment with more writing and drawing. In the meantime, I can avoid getting used to the additional income by stashing it all in a safety net, opportunity fund, or similar budget. If we keep our lifestyle the same, it’s easy to evaluate work for its own sake.
Are there some smaller-value activities that I should spend more time on instead of reading, writing, and drawing? Spending time with people is nice, but it can be a little iffy in terms of energy, so I might take the occasional opportunity and use the rest of the time on other things. I can review my notes instead of reading lots of new books, and use those notes for material for blog posts and experiments. When I find myself looking for non-writing activities, this table might be handy to review.
Let’s see how this works out.