It's hard to think that I'll get to that point. Today, I felt like a trembling 11-year-old rushing through my first speaking parts, thinking too much about the scene and the situation for me to fully enjoy. I found it hard to keep eye contact, to build the relationship, even to listen and recognize the games that we could play with each other.
Maybe after five more weeks, my classmates and I will have figured more of this out! Wouldn't that be fun? =)
One of my challenges is finding the game, then letting go. A scene doesn't have to be about conflict or about problem-solving. It can be just a day in the life. I don't have to consciously amp it up. What would this look like if we did this really well? We might stumble across something interesting, then recognize it and play off it throughout the scene. It's like the little jokes that W- and I have! We play word-games all the time, and we occasionally make up situations too. If I can figure out how to take that feeling and bring it to my classes, I think that would be pretty cool.
How can I grow in this? There are a few things I can do:
- I can expose myself to more role models. Watching improv shows can give me ideas of what it looks like when things go really well. I can also take notes when people on the stage miss the game or don't let go.
- I can look for opportunities to practice in real life. Maybe small talk can give me more opportunities to listen and react, and of course there are the games W- and I play.
- I can practice on my own. It might be time to dust off my flash fiction writing, do morning pages, and play with free association or stream-of-consciousness writing. The thing is to hush my inner editor and just follow my curiosity, knowing that wherever I end up is the right place to be.
- I can set up opportunities to practice. W-'s okay with having people over, so maybe I'll host a get-together one of these weekends. August 29 and September 5, maybe?
- I can warm up. How? Hmm... More free association on the way there?
I'm still getting used to making up reality. Normal conversation doesn't usually include establishing other people's realities based on made-up assumptions.
It's useful to practice both strong initiations and great agreement. I can practice initiation and relationship development is by writing flash fiction. Agreement and finding the game, that's harder to practice on my own. It is, after all, a game. But maybe I can pick some of that up by watching other people, or even video.
<grin> This'll be fun!
Also, another interesting insight from today: playing a high-status person doesn't automatically mean putting other people down. It was obvious once our teacher pointed that out, but I think we'd all gone for the snobbish stereotype! <laugh> I'll be keeping an eye out for status (both high and low) in real life...