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1. See, I'm not the only one weirded out by the word "co-ed"
From: rnewtonATkent.edu on a word-a-day mailing list I'm subscribed to:
The most egregious example of gender-bias in English is, I think, the existence of two words for students. Male students are students; but female students are co-eds. This originates in schools being for males only. So, when they allowed girls to come "along" (this is what co- means), they were viewed as nonessential appendages. Kind of like Adam being created independently, and then Eve was formed to assist him. I have insisted that all my students expunge this word from their vocabulary. I no longer allow them to say they live in a co-ed dorm, for example, since that implies that the dorms are really there for the one sex only. There are only male dorms, female dorms, and mixed- gender dorms (although this is a misnomer, since gender is not the same as sex; but we can't very easily call them two-sex dorms without raising eyebrows; unisex might work?).
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2. "Geek Love"
Dominique Cimafranca's submitting this entry to an Inquirer contest. Awww, melt melt melt...
One of the hallmarks of the stereotypical male computer nerd is his ineptitude with members of the opposite sex. Especially those of the attractive kind. Most especially those of the attractive and intelligent kind. Just read one of the many strips of Dilbert which deals with the subject.
Cliched as the image may be, there's some truth to it nonetheless. I should know. I am a stereotypical male computer nerd.
At one point, I wished out loud to my friends that I could meet a girl that came with an instruction manual. I meant it in jest, what with women being so complex and all. But apparently, there was such a girl--and no, she was not of the inflatable kind.
In doing advocacy work for Linux, I wrote a series of articles on prominent Linux personalities in the Philippines. One of the people I featured was Sacha Chua, a programming wunderkind who was very much in touch with the pulse of geekdom. Sacha was into Linux, Emacs, and wearable computing. Certainly she made good copy, and several people posted links to that article on my web site.
I conducted the interview via email so we didn't really get to meet. Nevertheless, she came across as very intelligent, very articulate, and very personable in our email exchanges.
Sacha also maintained a wiki — a sort of a blog — where she placed all her code and her essays. One of her entries was entitled "On Love", a tongue-in-cheek how-to to on courting geek girls, particularly, Sacha Chua. Finally, a girl with an instruction manual. Was this the answer to my wish, I wondered.
Humorous as the tone was, the instruction manual was in earnest about what Sacha was looking for. At the top of the list was intelligent conversation that would increase her stock of knowledge. Getting to know her family was also important to her. Flowers, stuffed animals, and other girly-girly stuff were a no-no. The bar was set high, but it also gave a clear indication as to what kind of person Sacha was. Was I interested? Absolutely!
Of course, I didn't start courting Sacha on the basis of that manual. Distance was a problem as I was based in the South and was travelling all over. But we did strike up a friendship facilitated by email. Through that I learned of her other interests in books, quirky movies, and puzzles.
We finally met when I moved to Manila. We would see each other from time to time. It helped greatly that we were both speakers at Linux seminars. Sacha introduced me to her wonderful family. She also brought me into her circle of friends, something I deeply appreciated because finally I met people of like minds.
I realized that we had something special when we reached that most intimate moment in a geek's life: after a dinner date, I asked her to set up computer for a demo that I was running the following day. She threw herself at the task, completing in half an hour what I knew would have taken me two hours. For a geek guy, well, that's nirvana.
Even though I know Sacha far better than before, the how-to guide still serves as a handy reference. On occasion, I take a peek at it to gauge if I'm doing things right. Not too shabby, I must say.
Then again, you know you love someone when you know when to break her rules. She was positively giddy about the Tux stuffed toy I gave her.
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