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Headlines for Friday:

  1. Borrowed some time from my thesis... (273 words)
  2. I just have to ride out the panic... (77 words)
  3. Found my checkbook... (116 words)
  4. Also, positive thinking means that... (30 words)
  5. Is this what a trapeze artist feels? (264 words)
  6. What's the scariest thing you've ever done? (135 words)
  7. Snuggle (52 words)

Tasks

    Priorities - A: high, B: medium, C: low; Status - _: unfinished, X: finished, C: cancelled, P: pending, o: in progress, >: delegated.
    AX@0900-1000 Scour apartment listings
    AX@1030 Talk to Graduate House about arrangement (MoveOut)
    AX@1100 Set up appointments with condos, plan my route (MoveOut)
    AX@1300 Look at condos, find out what my lead time is so that I know how long to pack for (MoveOut)
    AC@1300-1400 Lotus Greenhouse call
    AC@1930 Ice skating with Graduate House
    AX@2000 THESIS: work on performance study
    AX@2030 Penguin time
    AXFind checkbook
    AXOrganize paperwork
    AXReorganize finances

Notes

1. Borrowed some time from my thesis...: 18:07

... to scour Toronto for an apartment. I wrote down the details of more than thirty ads, called more than twenty places, visited as many as I could before friction caused the inner soles of my shoes to heat up and the bottom of my socks to thin out.

I'm thrilled to say that I found one: right across the street.

Life is going to be a _little_ bit tricky. I'm taking some big risks here, but I both think and feel that I can take it, and my downside seems well-covered. I'm biting off more than I've chewed before, but I'm confident that I'll either be able to handle it or throw it up without injuring myself badly. =) That's enough for that metaphor, thank you...

I'm also slowly teaching myself more about risk, too. I have to. Better to make lots of small decisions with possible mistakes than to play it safe all the time and find yourself unable to cope with the big opportunities that come up. I'm not dealing with huge opportunities yet, but I want to be!

I borrowed time from my thesis to go on this adventure. Like any kind of loan, I have to now pay it back with interest. I have a new reason to not only do well on my thesis, but to do *really* well. And I *hope* all the pieces fall together neatly, because as much as I trust that I have a good backup plan, I like it when things Just Work...

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2. I just have to ride out the panic...: 19:41

Panic is natural. As long as I don't act during it, I'm fine... I'll work out a plan somehow. What's the worst case, anyway? The absolute absolute worst case is that I either have to take advantage of the university's short-term immediate housing resources, or crash in someone's basement... Whatever it is, it's going to be temporary.

This is not a crisis.

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3. Found my checkbook...: 19:56

... zippered into the lining of my carry-on suitcase, practically flush with the frame of the suitcase. That's probably why I missed it when I was unpacking everything. I checked every pocket, but didn't feel anything out of the ordinary. Small, flat, rectangular checkbooks feel much like parts of suitcase frames!

Also, I'm getting *really* good at using breathing and mental reminders to trick myself into not panicking (or at least to keep moving forward while stresssing out)...

OKAY. Things are going to work out. The worst case is manageable. Now let's try to make the best case happen.

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4. Also, positive thinking means that...: 19:57

... you put "Find checkbook" on your task list instead of "Look for checkbook". ;)

Little things matter.

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5. Is this what a trapeze artist feels?: 20:39

This is a fascinating feeling. I'm not sure if I've blogged it before. There's fear, yes. I can feel the stress in the tightening of my ribcage, the shallowness of my breathing, the tension in my stomach.

But there's also exhilaration at the prospects in front of me: not just in terms of housing, but other things as well. Can I do it? I *will* do it... but can I do it as well as I plan? Can I have it all? So there's that excitement.

There's more here, though. There's the fun I had with programming competitions and puzzles and problem solving... Taking a knotty problem, pulling out pieces of it, simplifying it until it's manageable, and then going for it. This translates into a methodical management of risk.

And there's my trust in the safety net, my plans for the worst case scenarios.

One more: the acceptance of both future versions of myself: whether I succeed or fail.

If I can feel this way with small things, what more when I can trust myself with larger ones? =D Am I making too big a deal of it? I don't know; I'm certainly thinking a lot more about it than I think others do. If I make a big deal of it but still manage to come through, then that's cool - this trains me to work under pressure and for higher stakes even though my actual stakes are low. =)

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6. What's the scariest thing you've ever done?: 20:58

When people think of scary things, they usually think of flashy stuff: sharks, heights, etc. The scariest things, however, aren't those that are outside you, but rather within you and because of you.

The next two weeks will be the scariest I've had because of the move, because of New York, because of everything. I think I can do it (if I can just stop blogging about it!).

What's the scariest thing you've ever done? What's the biggest risk you've taken? How did you prepare for it? How did you deal with the results? E-mail me at [email protected], comment on my blog, or tell me stories some other way - examples would help me keep sane! <laugh>

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7. Snuggle: 22:24

Today was just way too intense. A morning of calling, an afternoon of walking, an evening of panicking...

I'm exhausted. I'm going to curl up with a stuffed penguin now. Talk to you folks tomorrow.

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