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		<title>Being a girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2006 07:20:00 GMT</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.horsepigcow.com/2006/05/sometimes-being-pic-really-sucks.html">Tara Hunt</a><br>
knows what it's like to fade into the background if one has a<br>
partner in crime. I don't really have that problem, probably because<br>
people are, like, &#8220;Ooh! a girl!&#8221; Kinda.</p>
<p>I like being a girl. I like turning up to tech conferences in dresses<br>
and earrings. I like hacking my computer T-shirts into something with<br>
more style. I like being me.</p>
<p>I like sneaking into tech get-togethers like the Linux Users Group or<br>
Ruby Users Group without worrying about technical credibility. I blend<br>
in. I'm part of the woodwork. People will just assume that I'm<br>
someone's girlfriend.</p>
<p>I like playing up my social aspect. I like connecting with people.<br>
Most people find it hard to reach out. They think it's easier for me<br>
because I'm a girl. Maybe it is. Maybe it isn't. Maybe I just use<br>
being a girl as an excuse to get over my nervousness. =)</p>
<p>If I have to bat my eyelashes at people and bribe them with homemade<br>
cookies, so be it.</p>
<p>If I have to jolt people out of their stereotypes by asking<br>
well-thought questions, I do so with great gusto.</p>
<p>If I have to bring out my laptop and do some console work in front of<br>
them to show them I've got the chops, fine.</p>
<p>And when the shadows in my head whisper that I'm not as good as the<br>
others, not as geeky as the others, I drown them in Emacs Lisp. ;)</p>



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