Annoyed with self

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  • Update: 2013/01/12: Getting better at this! =) Belt bag + digitizing as much as possible helps a lot.

One of my problems is that I often misplace things. Today I left a pack of stamps in my coat. They must've fallen out as I rummaged
through the Japanese Paper Place. I also spent a fair bit of time looking for my idea notebook, which turned out to be in my drawer.
This problem is costing me time and money, and I need to fix it.

Here's how I think I can address this problem:

  • Have clearly-defined places for everything. For example, my idea notebook should have been on the shelf with my other notebooks, but I haven't hardwired myself to put it there even when I'm not paying full attention. I took my access cards out and put them in my coat pocket when I walked around, but then spent time and had a little bit of stress making sure I had all the cards I needed. I should leave them in my wallet and just carry a handbag.
  • Put away things as early as possible. I really shouldn't ignore the nagging feeling that I should put something away. It invariably hurts. Case in point: stamps. I _thought_ I put it away in my stamps-and-writing-stuff drawer, but I apparently didn't.
  • Be fully in the moment. I misplace things when I'm not paying attention. I should slow done and live fully in the moment, paying attention to all my actions.
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I'm kind of a distracted person and often rushing more than necessary, if rushing is every necessary. For a number of key objects I have a routine and fixed place: keys back into the keyhole right when I get in, train ticket always in front pocket of my bag (i'd kick myself when I misplace it in a pocket elsewhere), some odd things that don't really belong anywhere and I'm sure I wouldn't find them whenever I do need them (not often but then badly): a pot on my desk, ... Oddly this works and has helped me immensely. Trouble started when my partner moved in and had his own ideas of where some things should go, for these I don't fight, just delegate to him to solve the problem.