Monthly review: May 2016
Posted: - Modified: | monthly, reviewA- has gotten a lot more interactive. She coos and smiles often, yay! She's also starting to grasp things and put them in her mouth, and is developing a personality. My first Mother's Day was an excellent opportunity to reflect on the things I've been learning so far. It's been a surprisingly good adventure, and rumour has it that it will get even better.
This month I was mostly preoccupied with A-‘s slow weight gain, but things are starting to settle down. The tests are coming back normal, so maybe she's really just a small baby. We're treating thrush in her mouth, and I'm counting my lucky stars that it hasn't been passed to me yet. I built a weight visualization chart so that I could easily see the weight trends based on the locations at which the measurements were taken, and I started tracking more details in terms of diaper and nursing.
Ching came over for A-‘s 100-day celebration with W-‘s family, yay! She brought a GoPro as a gift from my family, and we've been taking short videos. It's fun to see A- gradually developing skills.
On my consulting gig, I finally got around to trying add-on development. Progress is slow, but progress is progress. =)
A little bit of sewing for A-: a reversible bonnet (that matches two of my blouses, fun!), a party dress out of red silk brocade, and a zippered pouch to hold a few diapers and wipes.
Next month: Medical stuff – A- is going under anaesthesia so that the ocularist can make an impression of her eye socket, for making custom-fit conformers. W- is going on parental leave starting June 20, too. Much happening!
Blog posts
- Emacs News
- Reviews
- Learning to become a parent
Sketches
- Journal
- Daily:
- 2016-05-02a Week ending 2016-04-29 -- index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-05-08a Week ending 2016-05-06 -- index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-05-14a Week ending 2016-05-13 -- index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-05-23a Week ending 2016-05-20 -- index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-05-31b Week ending 2016-05-27 -- index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-05-04b April 2016 -- index card #monthly #review
- Parenting
- Looking ahead
- 2016-05-05c What would I like this time to be -- index card #experiment #parenting
- 2016-05-13a Looking forward to looking back -- index card #parenting
- 2016-05-15b How would I like to celebrate her first year -- #looking-ahead #parenting
- 2016-05-21b Thinking about longer-term effects -- index card #concern #parenting #health
- 2016-05-21c Things I particularly want to help A- learn -- index card #parenting #learning #teaching
- 2016-05-25b What do I want -- index card #philosophy #parenting
- 2016-05-18a Thinking ahead about possible regrets -- index card #looking-ahead #parenting
- 2016-05-18b Planning ahead for regret minimization -- index card #looking-ahead #parenting
- 2016-05-18c Regret minimization, continued -- index card #looking-ahead #parenting
- 2016-05-18d What's the delta -- index card #identity #parenting
- 2016-05-18e What kind of person do I want to grow into -- index card #parenting #looking-ahead #identity
- 2016-05-13b How can I make this stage better -- index card #kaizen #parenting #breastfeeding
- Looking back
- Observation
- 2016-05-17a Calibrating my concern over weight gain -- index card #parenting #health
- 2016-05-21a More thoughts on A-'s slow growth -- index card #parenting #concern #health #calibration
- 2016-05-25c Measuring up, not down -- index card #parenting #philosophy #anxiety
- 2016-05-18f Observing better -- index card #parenting #learning
- 2016-05-30d An opportunity to learn observation -- index card #perception #observation #learning #parenting
- Breastfeeding
- 2016-05-15d Nursing notes -- index card #breastfeeding #parenting
- 2016-05-07b Pieces to figure out -- index card #feeding #parenting
- 2016-05-09a Breast pump decisions -- index card #breastfeeding #decision
- 2016-05-23b How to use a lactation aid without needing three hands -- index card #breastfeeding #supplementation
- 2016-05-25a Notes after lactation consultant -- index card #breastfeeding
- 2016-05-11b Changes -- index card #parenting #changes #delta
- 2016-05-04a Jumpstarting parent friendships -- index card #parenting #social #connecting
- 2016-05-06b Ramping up child care -- index card #parenting
- 2016-05-11c Parenting with W- -- index card #parenting #relationships #marriage
- 2016-05-30b Tweaking time -- index card #time #parenting #routines
- Looking ahead
- Planning
- 2016-05-03a What would I like my 80th to be like -- index card #long-term #growing-older
- 2016-05-05b How do I want consulting to fit into my skill development -- index card #my-learning #consulting #coding #experiment
- 2016-05-05d What skills do I want to develop over the next few years -- index card #experiment #my-learning
- 2016-05-05e If W- and I need to swap -- index card #contingency #planning
- 2016-05-15c Non-baby conversations -- index card #identity
- 2016-05-31a When to draw -- index card #time #drawing #decision
- 2016-05-31d When I make a big mistake -- index card #philosophy #response #fire-drill
- House