I saw this snippet in a 2016 interview in Psychology Today with T. Berry Brazelton: (toot)

“BB: I've just finished writing a book, The Final Touchpoint I'd like to get that out there. There are better and worse ways to handle our aging, our denial of it, our acceptance, and—as Erik Erikson put it—our being generative, to produce as much as we can while we can. I'm 98 but I'm still trying to be generative.”

He died two years after the interview and I don't think The Final Touchpoint has been published, but it might be interesting to find similar books.

The Experimental Parent | Psychology Today (toot) I saw this snippet in a 2016 interview in Psychology Today with T. Berry Brazelton:

“BB: I've just finished writing a book, The Final Touchpoint I'd like to get that out there. There are better and worse ways to handle our aging, our denial of it, our acceptance, and—as Erik Erikson put it—our being generative, to produce as much as we can while we can. I'm 98 but I'm still trying to be generative.”

He died two years after the interview and I don't think The Final Touchpoint has been published, but it might be interesting to find similar books.

Memexes, mountain lakes, and the serendipity of old ideas (Interconnected) (toot) Hmm, an On This Day RSS feed might be worth writing a tiny script that I can add to a crontab.

“Naturally there's an On This Day web feed too so these posts appear in my newsreader each morning. Some personal serendipity to start the day.”

Oh Hello Ana - In defense of unpolished personal websites: (toot) On the value of legible source code for websites, especially personal ones:

“Today's heavily optimized websites have largely killed the "view source" learning experience. The code is minified, bundled, and often incomprehensible to beginners trying to understand how things work.
I got the ick from my own small optimisation. My personal website is small and it isn't an urgent service. It's hardly ever visited from a mobile phone. Maybe I shouldn't be using the little time I have to focus on that side of front-end development in this instance?
But deep down, all I want for my personal website is to give back to the web. I want anyone, regardless of skill level, to inspect elements, understand the structure, and learn from readable code. And I am fully aware my code isn't perfect. It's old and there's a lot of room for improvement.”

Found via Favourites of March 2025 | Brain Baking

• follow-up: also check out https://github.com/mariohamann/activity-graph

From @johnrakestraw's On keeping a notebook (toot)

“One thing that really fascinates me is how I'm reminded of events and readings that I'd completely forgotten – but, once reminded, I find that these things are once again in my mind. Perhaps I can say what I'm thinking more clearly — though I'm more than a little frustrated by having absolutely no memory of experiencing or reading something I describe in an entry written only a few years ago, I'm fascinated by how reading what I wrote has brought that experience back to mind rather vividly. Of course I'm reminded of what I described in the text that I'm now re-reading, but I can also remember other things associated with whatever it is that is described there. It's as though the small bit that I wrote and can now read is the key that unlocks a much larger trove of memory. Funny how the mind works.”

I am also quite fuzzy about things that happened, and I'm glad I've got notes to help me sort of remember.

Connections (toot) Following a link from https://manuelmoreale.com/pb-maya , I enjoyed this quote about blogging:

Although, as well researched and as thoughtful as Houston might be there's a messiness at work here that I love; it is the true great quality of a blog. That permission to roam, to let your curiosity grab you by the lapel and hoist you across fifteen different subjects over the course of a single paragraph; blogging is pointing at things and falling in love.

Programmable Notes (toot) Oooh, it could be fun to trawl through these for ideas for things to port over to Emacs.

The Smartblocks plug-in for Roam Research is the system I personally use to build these types of workflows. It offers a set of triggers, variables, and commands you can chain together into fairly readable statements like: <%SET:topOfMindToday,<%INPUT:What's on your mind today?%>%> or <%RANDOMBLOCKFROM:Writing Ideas%>.

Even with limited programming knowledge, many people in the community have been able to fashion their own Smartblock flows. Plenty of them have published their workflows to the community Github for others to use.

Smartblock flows on Github

The promise and distraction of productivity and note-taking systems (toot)

Books are maps to territories that are completely internal to the reader. By focusing so heavily on extracting the surface symbology of the map itself, these process-heavy note-takers risk losing sight of the territory. A book's territory is the reasoning and argument that the book presents to you as a path you take through your own psyche. The goal isn't to remember everything the book contains. Remembering a book's contents is useless. The book exists to contain what it contains. If the contents are important, you keep a copy of it for you to look things up again.

But that isn't the point of reading. The purpose of reading is to be changed. Sometimes the change is trivial and temporary – a piece of fiction that brings some joy in your life. Sometimes the change is profound – a shift in your perspective on life. “Action items” from a book are external and forcing yourself to follow through on them is exhausting.

On Michel de Montaigne's tangents: quote from Je Replie Ma Vue Au Dedans | Brain Baking (toot)

“One of the consequences of his unique approach to writing is the many digressions present in the Essais. And with many, I mean a great deal of 'em. Most, if not all, essays only mention the topic—as supposedly made apparent to the reader via the title—in passing. Bakewell picks out an example: About chariots. The text starts with a digression on writing, sways over to the very compelling subject of sneezing only to land on the actual topic two pages later to then to drift off again onto a summary of recent happenings in the New World.”

If I meander, at least I'm in excellent company.

On intentional friction - quote from PKM Summit 2025 Notes | Brain Baking (toot) Intentional friction: slow down and add context (your why) for tasks and notes. I like this because it makes it easier to pick things up again and actually do something about it. Related thought: turning books into action items

“Someone else then advised to add context: why did you record this, or why do you think this might be important? If you can't write that down, then don't save it. This is added friction: constantly aiming to reduce friction is not always beneficial to your system. We still have the habit to collect too much stuff and do too little with it. This seemed to be a shared struggle among attendants and speakers alike.”

On sharing your questions - quote from Ness Labs on collective curiosity (toot) Also via @takeonrules's journal entry

1. Mapping the unknown. Many breakthroughs start when someone admits “I don't understand why…” Sit down with your colleagues and explicitly write down what you don't know or understand about a topic. This turns knowledge gaps into shared opportunities for discovery. 

This reminds me of that link I just shared about a person's big questions: https://tracydurnell.com/questions/
another example: https://reeswrites.com/about-big-questions/

Oh hey, Ness Labs = Anne-Laure Le Cunff, of the ADHD and curiosity paper I've also got a link to somewhere in my drafts; adding another blog to my feed reader

Followed up: I started a list of questions I often consider, inspired by Tracy Durnell.

On the density and invisibility of digital notes (toot)

And these digital files take a different kind of stewardship. The density of information per cubic inch of material is mind-boggling. Yet that density of information exists invisible to our analogue self, we need wizardry to make it visible and hopefully known. This density and invisibility, I suspect, makes it easy to lose and misplace and disregard.

It's difficult to get this sense of heft for digital thoughts. I wanted go experiment with that a bit using treemaps, but I'm not quite there yet. Spatial relationships are interesting too. I used to lay out index card sketches. Maybe I'll learn how to use Noteful or similar apps to get a handle on a larger topic by using sketched and hyperlinked maps…

On learning the terminology - quote from "How did you know to do that?" on avdi.codes (toot)

Learning the terminology is an important step that people struggle with. Communities help with that.

Just as an example: I've realized that when I'm studying a problem, I rely a lot on “second-order Googling”. That's a process whereby I don't try to discover a solution in a single search. Instead, in my first few searches, I just try to find other people talking about the problem area, using my own naïve description of the task at hand.

Then, once I discover some conversations that are taking place among people experienced in that domain, I read over them looking for the specific terminology that I had missed. Once I have the terminology, I'm able to use it to compose much more focused searches that usually lead me directly to the answer I'm looking for.

On each person shaping Emacs to fit them - quote from BSAG » On the 'Emacs From Scratch' cycle (toot)

It struck me the other day that there is probably more variation and diversity among different users' Emacs configurations than among the configurations of any other editor. Users are able to change almost any aspect of the way that Emacs functions, with easy access to clear documentation explaining how it works right now, and how you can change it. This means that each instance of Emacs ends up a unique shape, like an old tool with a wooden handle worn down into the shape of its owners' habitual grasp. That simile doesn't quite work, because Emacs users work hard and deliberately to shape their Emacs tools to fit their needs, so it is more than just passive wear.

What lights you up? quote from "Little p purpose" – Butterfly Mind (toot)

Jordan Grumet, the guest on the podcast, addresses this worry. He distinguishes between big P Purpose and little p purpose. Purpose with a big P is the one that gets me, and apparently a lot of people, stressed. It feels like, “Why am I here? What am I meant to do?” It induces anxiety if we want to find Purpose but don't know where to look. Little p purpose, though, does not ask “why?”; it doesn't examine the reason for our existence. Instead it asks, “what lights you up?”

On tagging posts with the people you got the ideas from - quote from "Early web influencers" | smays.com (toot) I hadn't considered using tags to tag people's names in blog posts before, but the way it's used in this post is neat. I clocked in the link for Nikol Lohr and saw a series of posts related to that person's thoughts. Interesting.

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On the connection between reading and writing - quote from "The more I read" - Dan Cullum (toot)

There is a strong correlation between the amount I’m reading, and the ideas I have for this blog. When I’m reading a lot, I feel like I have ideas coming out my eyes.

On books - quote from "The Lost Art of Research as Leisure" by Mariam Mahmoud (toot)

Writing nearly 350 years earlier, Galileo had declared books “the seal of all the admirable inventions of mankind,” because books allow us to communicate through time and place, and to speak to those “who are not yet born and will not be born for a thousand or ten thousand years.”

Reminds me of the Great Conversation described in Adler and van Doren's How to Read a Book.

Toronto Public Library workers vote resoundingly in favour of strike | Canadian Union of Public Employees (toot)

Toronto Public Library workers have given their union a strong strike mandate in ongoing contract negotiations with the Toronto Public Library. The workers, represented by CUPE 4948, held a strike vote over the weekend with a historic turnout, where over 96 per cent voted in favour of authorizing the union to take strike action if necessary.

… CUPE 4948 and the Toronto Public Library have multiple bargaining dates scheduled throughout March. The union remains focused on securing a contract that includes inflation-adjusted wage increases, solutions to chronic understaffing and workplace violence, improved working conditions, and stronger benefits.

CUPE 4948's Instagram has a few videos from librarians explaining issues around short staffing, precarious work, and other things the union wants to improve.

The library is one of my favourite parts of Toronto. Librarians are awesome. I want them to feel safe and appreciated. I hope they can come to a good agreement!

On solitude - quote from "How to Meet Your Mystery: Thomas Merton on Solitude and the Soul" – The Marginalian (toot)

Thomas Merton, quoted in the Marginalian:

The solitary is one who is aware of solitude in himself as a basic and inevitable human reality, not just as something which affects him as an isolated individual. Hence his solitude is the foundation of a deep, pure and gentle sympathy with all other men, whether or not they are capable of realizing the tragedy of their plight.

The beginnings of an information workflow - toot

The beginnings of an information workflow: read on my iPad (bigger screen than my phone, easier to carry around the house than my laptop); share interesting tidbits to Chrome on my phone; share a quote and maybe a thought via Tusky (includes reasonably readable link to context, might spark further conversation); collect those from my GoToSocial instance and archive them in a blog post or Org Mode notes, keeping track of ideas I want to connect or flesh out further

On solitude - quote from 'Living Against Time: Virginia Woolf on the Art of Presence and the “Moments of Being” That Make You Who You Are' – The Marginalian (toot) On Virginia Woolf:

In Moments of Being (public library) — the posthumous collection of her autobiographical writings — she writes:

A great part of every day is not lived consciously. One walks, eats, sees things, deals with what has to be done; the broken vacuum cleaner; ordering dinner; writing orders to Mabel; washing; cooking dinner; bookbinding. When it is a bad day the proportion of non-being is much larger.

In her 1925 novel Mrs. Dalloway — part love letter to these moments of being, part lamentation about the proportion of non-being we choose without knowing we are choosing — she locates the key to righting the ratio in “the power of taking hold of experience, of turning it round, slowly, in the light.”

On curiosity - quote from "The Hypercuriosity Theory of ADHD" (toot) A+ and I both have strong interest-based focus, which means classwork might be tricky. Fortunately, I can use my interest in helping her grow to help me Learn All the Things so I can advocate for her and help her figure out her brain. Might be ADHD, might be something else, but it's probably a good idea to work with it instead of trying to squish it into something that it's not.

Given that high trait curiosity might be a strength in ADHD, interventions could focus on harnessing this natural tendency rather than trying to suppress it.

For instance, AI-assisted tools have shown promise in providing personalized learning experiences for individuals with ADHD, allowing them to engage with material in ways that capitalize on their natural curiosity. Game-based learning has also demonstrated positive effects on engagement and interest, particularly in subjects like mathematics. The Montessori classroom model, which is designed to foster curiosity, has shown promising results—students with ADHD in Montessori settings exhibit more actively engaged on-task behaviors compared to traditional classroom settings. Lastly, outdoor socially-oriented activities have been associated with higher levels of curiosity.

On emotional support, parenting, and gold stars - quote from "Free! Live discussion about autism Nov. 13, 7pm ET" - Penelope Trunk (toot) I came across Penelope Trunk's blog again after many years of not regularly reading RSS feeds (aside from the blogs about Emacs, of course).

This quote resonated:

But parents have messed up view of what emotional support is, because parents want gold stars for parenting. So the support most parents give is to steer the kid to get gold stars. Parents mistake helping a kid get gold stars for helping a kid feel loved."

Our kid is 9, bored at school, and procrastinates homework. I know what that's like because I was like that too. (I think she's doing better than I did.) I've been working on fretting less. Pushing her to get the work done and check those checkboxes might not be in her best interest anyhow.

On side notes / footnotes - toot

I like this use of side notes/footnotes at https://www.citationneeded.news/free-and-open-access-in-the-age-of-generative-ai/ . Footnotes use letters to distinguish them from numbered references, and are duplicated as side notes on large screens. I also like the “Show buttons that expand the side note” or “Include side notes after the paragraph on small screens” approaches on other sites.

Sketchnoting Science: How to Make Sketchnotes from Technical Content | NIST (toot)

Enjoyed the examples of technical sketchnotes in https://www.nist.gov/publications/sketchnoting-science-how-make-sketchnotes-technical-content , found via https://www.sketchnotelab.com/p/sketchnote-lab-dispatch-march-2025