It’s been a week of seeing people. A- was somewhat fussy during dinner with W-‘s family. She might have been tired, overstimulated by the noisy Chinese restaurant, and a little intimidated by relatives wanting to pick her up. She preferred to stay with W- or me. Totally normal. Anyway, since this might be the usual stranger anxiety starting to develop (yay! W- is not a stranger!), I’ve been making an effort to take her to more activities at the Ontario Early Years Centre and the neighbourhood family resource centre. We finished the Peer Nutrition program, and we’ll check out the drop-ins that follow up on that program.
A- has been working on expanding her vocabulary. Recent addition: “Ba”. She’s also getting pretty good at sitting on her own, although I still stay close enough to catch her during those random topples.
The pediatrician is no longer that concerned about A-‘s weight gain, since she’s been growing faster. Enough to inch back over the 5th percentile curve, yay! In addition to nursing, she also self-feeds a wide variety of solids. She’s particularly fond of egg (breakfast), yogurt (evening snack), and raspberries (any time, especially with yogurt).
I finally got around to printing a photo of A- so that the family home visitor can include it in the laminated foot print memento.
A- has a passport now, whee! Got travel insurance that will probably cover things related to her heart, too. Next trip-related steps: sort out pet vaccines and boarding.
In preparation for possibly leaving my laptop behind on our trip, I’ve been experimenting with drawing my daily journal and thoughts on index cards instead of on my laptop. Drawing is relatively unfussy except for dealing with wet spots, and I feel more comfortable drawing on paper around A- than having my laptop out. Deskewing and tweaking the image is a bit fussy, although I can do some of that on my phone. I might need to use different-coloured pens instead of adding colour in post-processing. Still need to tweak my workflow. It would be neat to figure out something that I can pull off with mobile devices and SSH, but it’s also okay if I decide to stick with my digital index card workflow instead. Good to experiment, though.
Also moved my library video tracking script online, so I can check the availability of new releases from my phone while we’re out on a walk.
I’d like to see if I can help my consulting client with something new. Might need to shuffle around my discretionary time activities in order to make space for it, or adjust expectations if this is what we have to work with.
A- has been settling into a pretty regular routine. She wakes up around 9ish. Aside from nursing, we usually have breakfast, lunch, merienda, dinner, and an evening snack. We go out for a walk almost every day, and there’s usually some kind of activity too. She settles in bed at around 10pm, although she tends to nurse on and off until about 4 AM before settling into a longer sleep. She usually has 2-3 naps during the day, although sometimes it’s just low-power nursing mode.
I’ve been prioritizing daytime activities that are stimulating for A-, so we’ve been going to neighbourhood resource centres. I feel less comfortable working on my laptop while she’s awake, since it’s important to interact with her and help her learn. I’m somewhat more okay with setting her down on the floor while I tidy or do other chores, since I can narrate those without verbal interference and it contributes to the household. If W-‘s around, I’d rather spend time with both of them than go off to do my own thing. Drawing on paper might let me move daily journals to our after-dinner or before-bed play/reading session, because I can review the day out loud with A-. So my main computer time for writing, coding, or consulting tends to be between 1 AM to 3 AM. If I nap when she nurses/nap, that helps a little with energy and focus. I’ve been averaging 2 hours a week of consulting, which was enough to fill up the pipeline of stuff they wanted from me. The new thing I want to help with might be a bigger chunk of focus and energy, though, since it’s something I’m less familiar with. Anyway, we’ll see how it goes.
Next week: cardiology, carpet-stretching, and lots of Toronto Public Health stuff: Make the Connection, the family home visitor, and a follow-up with the dietitian.
- 2016-08-27a Week ending 2016-08-26 – index card #journal #weekly
- 2016-08-27b Saturday – index card #journal #social
- 2016-08-28d Sunday – index card #journal
- 2016-08-29a Monday – index card #journal
- 2016-08-30a Tuesday – index card #journal
- 2016-08-31g Wednesday – index card #journal #coding
- 2016-09-01 Thursday – index card #daily #journal
- 2016-09-02 Friday – index card #daily #journal
- 2016-08-30b Thinking about the next 6 months – index card #planning
- 2016-08-31b Thinking about consulting directions – index card #consulting #planning #experiment
- 2016-08-31c More thoughts on learning and consulting – index card #planning #exeriment #consulting
- 2016-08-31e Short-term experiments – index card #experiment
- 2016-08-31f What would I trade money for – index card #money
- 2016-09-01a What do I want in terms of food – index card #cooking #parenting
- 2016-09-01b What do I want – index card #priorities
- Other parenting notes
Focus areas and time review
- Business (1.3h – 0%)
- ☐ Earn: E1: 1-2 days of consulting
- Earn (1.2h – 94% of Business)
- Build (0.1h – 5% of Business)
- Connect (0.0h – 0% of Business)
- Relationships (5.3h – 3%)
- ☑ Decide on travel insurance
- ☑ Get eye report from eye doctor
- ☑ Pick up A-‘s Canadian passport
- ☑ Check if hydro debit went through
- ☐ Check on RESP to see if it’s been set up; transfer if so
- ☐ Print family photos
- ☐ Check out follow-up session
- Discretionary – Productive (8.2h – 4%)
- Drawing (5.7h)
- Emacs (0.8h)
- Coding (0.4h)
- ☑ Add movie script to web
- ☑ Fix website
- Sewing (0.0h)
- Writing (0.3h)
- Discretionary – Play (2.5h – 1%)
- Personal routines (17.5h – 10%)
- Unpaid work (75.5h – 44%)
- Childcare (69.1h – 41% of total)
- Sleep (57.6h – 34% – average of 8.2 per day)