This might be the earliest I've written an annual review in years. Now
that A- is becoming more independent, I've been slowly reclaiming time
for myself. We'll see how it goes!
I feel like we grew so much this year. We've shifted to spending a lot
more time outside, trying to slow down the progression of A-'s
nearsightedness. It's been easy to do that with fine weather and
plenty of playdates. A- enjoyed playing with dolls and tea parties
with her friends at the playground. I'm happy to keep them
well-stocked with chalk and flower petals for colourful potions and
soups. We had a lot of flexibility thanks to her virtual kindergarten
teacher, who was all right with us pretty much spending the whole day
playing outside. A- continued to have fun reading and doing math,
diving into graphic novels such as the Wings of Fire series and the
comic guides of Beast Academy Level 2. She also enjoyed using math to
explore entrepreneurship, setting up her first lemonade stand.
(CoVID-safe: she sold bottled water and powdered juice packets.) She's
also starting to get interested in typing and in writing cursive. (So
fancy!)
We finally gave her the go-ahead to watch movies on weekends and other
special occasions. Cinderella, Tangled, and Frozen have been her
favourites. She loved the floor-length gown I sewed her. We've been
memorizing song lyrics, and doing a lot of pretending. It's all good.
W- has taken over most of the cooking because we're usually out
playing in the afternoon. A-'s interested in helping in the kitchen,
so we do some of that together. She also enthusiastically helps with
W-'s house projects. We're all picking up practical life skills. She's
growing so much. I need to remember to keep challenging her!
While supporting this whirlwind of learning, I've been able to squeeze
in a bit of consulting. I learned more about automating things with
Python, and I also enjoyed being able to hand over my Javascript
prototypes to other team members who could deal with things like
meetings or fiddly CSS.
I also really appreciated working with a larger team of volunteers for
last year's EmacsConf. We managed to get most of the videos captioned
in time for broadcast, which was neat! I'd like to try that again this
year. I see all sorts of inspiring posts in the process of compiling
Emacs News each week, so I'm sure there'll be plenty to talk about at
EmacsConf this year.
I've been working on few other tech improvements here and there. I
upgraded my Lenovo ThinkPad X220T to 16GB of memory, so it feels a
little snappier. I got a SuperNote A5X mostly for drawing on, and I
love it. (In fact, I wrote this on the A5X.) I included A-'s interests
in the typing website I made for her. It's nice to be able to make
these little improvements.
For fun, we picked up cubing last October–even A-, who can often
solve a 3x3 cube faster than I can. It's a compact way to exercise
memory, spatial thinking, and fine motor skills, so I'm all for it. I
average about a minute for a solve. If I practise, maybe I'll get to
sub-45 seconds.
Drawing is lots of fun too. I've been really enjoying exploring
thoughts and doodling stuff around me. Maybe I'll end up blogging more
as well!
So yeah, all in all, a pretty good year.
Last year, I wrote that I wanted to:
- support and document A-'s learning: This worked out really well. I
reused the spreadsheet I made for junior kindergarten so that I
could organize my journal observations according to the four frames
used in Ontario's kindergarten program. Grade 1 will be more
subject-oriented, and I look forward to figuring out how to keep
following A-'s interests while organizing the observations in a way
that would be helpful for the teachers.
- plant more flowers: A- has loved being able to pick flowers pretty
much every day for giving to us or making pretend soups. Dahlias,
dianthus, marigolds, mums, poppies, alyssum, bachelor's buttons…
so many to choose from!
- read and draw: I've been able to draw during some of A-'s
playdates and while waiting for her to wake up. Progress is being made.
- keep my priorities straight: having a bit more me time makes it
easier for me to focus on A- when she wants it to be her time.
Next year will probably be all about adapting to grade 1 and A-'s
developing capabilities. We'll continue to focus on spending time
outside, and we'll see how that goes.
Blog posts
Aside from emacs-news and weekly reviews:
- Emacs:
- Other tech:
- Parenting:
- Life:
- Reviews:
Sketches
- Parenting
- Drawing for fun:
- Life:
- Emacs:
- Tech:
Time
| Category |
2020-2021 % |
2021-2022 % |
Diff % |
h/wk |
Diff h/wk |
| Sleep |
31.9 |
35.7 |
3.8 |
59.9 |
6.4 |
| Personal |
5.6 |
7.3 |
1.7 |
12.3 |
2.9 |
| Discretionary - Play |
0.3 |
1.0 |
0.7 |
1.8 |
1.2 |
| Business |
1.8 |
2.2 |
0.4 |
3.7 |
0.7 |
| Unpaid work |
4.5 |
4.6 |
0.1 |
7.7 |
0.1 |
| Discretionary - Family |
0.4 |
0.5 |
0.1 |
0.8 |
0.1 |
| Discretionary - Social |
0.1 |
0.1 |
-0.0 |
0.1 |
-0.0 |
| A- |
45.1 |
42.3 |
-2.8 |
71.0 |
-4.8 |
| Discretionary - Productive |
10.3 |
6.4 |
-3.9 |
10.8 |
-6.6 |
Huh, that's interesting. We shifted to being outside more often, so I
haven't been bribing A- with screentime in order to have some coding
time (Discretionary - Productive time down). She's happy to read more
independently now (A- time down), so I've been able to set a bedtime
for myself and start settling down for sleep at a reasonable time
(Sleep up), and I sometimes have breakfast by myself while waiting for
her to finish reading (Personal - Routines up). From time to time, I
can even do a bit of reading myself (Discretionary - Play up). W-'s
handling almost all the cooking since we're out on playdates, but I've
shifted more chore time towards picking up, cooking, and doing
errands, so the time I spend on household stuff (Unpaid work) is still
about the same. This year has felt pretty good.
It would be nice to have more time for working on personal projects,
but I don't know how that would fit into our current rhythms. I don't
want to stay up late, and A- doesn't want me to be on my laptop while
waiting for her to wake up. So I'll probably focus on writing and
drawing for a little while, since I can do that early in the morning.
I just have to pick coding projects that pique her interest, like when
I made a typing practice website based on her favourite books. Other
things can wait.
Let's see what the next year brings!
