Next step: Add more to soil to get more out of it:
replace front garden with compost & radishes
get the pots set up for lettuce
Things that get in the way:
Heat
Poor soil weeds > seeds
Other priorities
Waiting
First frost: ~ Oct 13
get strawberries back in the ground
another crop of lettuce & radishes
The weather's getting cooler. I probably have a
couple of weeks more before the cherry tomatoes
get too cold. A+ hasn't been interested in
harvesting them lately, so I get to do the
tomato-picking now. We have a little over a month
until the usual first frost in Toronto. I moved
the strawberries to pots during spring/summer so
that I could keep them in a cage away from
squirrels, but now it's time to put them in the
ground. I'll see if I can still pick up some
compost from the garden store so that I can amend
the soil before I replant the strawberries. It's a
good time for me to get some more lettuce and
radishes going, too.
There's a conversation 1 about whether blogging
is lonely
and I wanted to reflect on that
from the perspective of 24ish years
of sharing notes on my
idiosyncratic interests.
Blog conversations remind me
of the Great Conversation
between book authors2
sometimes with centuries
in between. In contrast, blogs.
are quick, open, convivial.
When it comes to developing ideas,
I like public writing more than
the ephemeral cacophany of
in-person conversations,
social media @replies
or private e-mails.
My notes are often for my present understanding
and sometimes for my future selves.
If they resonate with others: bonus!
I think this might be a useful way to think about it.
Write out of self-interest.
Leave the door open for serendipity
Then it's not about
"No one's liking or commenting"
or even
"Why can't I find other people like me"
It's more like:
I'll keep exploring and taking notes, because it's fun.
Maybe I'll bump into others and swap notes someday. Who knows?
There's a conversation about feeling lonely while
blogging that echoes through the years. Here's a
recent instance: Do blogs need to be so lonely? -
The History of the Web; I also liked The silent
applause | Robert Birming and Blogs don’t need to
be so lonely – Manu. Me, I mostly write for
myself, and I don't feel particularly lonely doing
so. It's a pleasant surprise whenever I hear from
someone, but it's not my main goal. I'm content to
plod along, trying to untangle my thoughts and
leave some breadcrumbs for my future self. This
has been very handy not only for technical posts,
but also for things like being able to remember
what it was like to be a twenty-something. Writing
into the quiet without expecting a reply is like
enjoying a comfortably silent beach and
occasionally being delighted when you discover
someone else's message in a bottle.
Blog conversations are so much faster than book
conversations. We don't have to pass through
publishing gatekeepers, we don't have to wait
years… just ideas bouncing back and forth.
Marvelous.
Commenting is easier than writing from scratch, so
it would be nice to give people that space to
share their follow-on thoughts more easily, but
it's becoming more of a hassle as parts of the Web
become more hostile. (Thanks, spammers and
advertising cookie-trackers.) I turned off
comments on my blog back in March as Disqus had
gotten overbearing with ads and tracking. I didn't
feel like figuring out another commenting service
or self-hosting my own. I don't miss wading
through all the spam. I do miss the ease of public
comments and the tips people shared, mostly
because it was convenient to see and share those
replies in one place. Still, there's space for
commentary. Some people comment via Mastodon or
their own blogs. Once in a blue moon, a post will
strike enough of a chord to get shared via Reddit
or something like that. And there's always e-mail.
I like blog carnivals: someone proposes a theme,
people can choose to write about it, and the host
links to all those posts for easier discovery.
There's one for IndieWeb and there's one for
Emacs. It's fun seeing all these different takes
on the same topic.
I wish it was easier for more people to share what
they've been figuring out. I don't think the
technology is the limiting factor. My mom used to
keep a blog on Blogger, and she also wrote some
posts in the self-hosted Wordpress I'd set up for
her before. My sister writes long stories on
Facebook and Instagram so that she can untangle
her thoughts and capture the memories. Never mind
that Facebook is a walled garden that's hard to
follow outside its algorithmic feed; at least
she's writing. I think it's more that the process
of sitting down and turning your thoughts into
words takes time and energy. That's the hard part,
but that's also what's worthwhile. You can't skip
it by using a large language model.
Is writing lonely? I wish more people had the
space to sit with their thoughts and figure them
out, and I wish they were easier to find. I'll
settle for reaching across time and space: to my
future self, for sure, and maybe to others whom I
may or may not interact with. Send enough bottles
out to sea, comb the beach often enough, and I'll
find plenty of people who like to take that quiet,
thoughtful approach to life (even as we gently
poke fun at ourselves for possibly overthinking
things). Fortunately, if they blog, it's easy to
keep in touch lightly: not limited by anyone's
energy or interest at a particular point in time,
but just open to serendipity.
: A few more thoughts I want to connect to this one:
I came across Twilight Journal via r/stoicism today, so I wanted to link to that too. Messages in bottles.
And another thought about the night sky and how it's filled with stars, even though there are unimaginable spaces between them… (Not that I've seen a clear night sky lately, but I have one clear memory of it as a child that stays with me.)
In February, I started adding emojis to my monthly summaries. I added emojis to the lines for the text versions of my monthly sketches, then used a little bit of Emacs Lisp to convert that into HTML code with the text as a tooltip. I wondered what it might be like to represent a lot of days very densely. Would the constrained vocabulary of emojis be enough to give me a sense of the time, combined with the ability to hover over the emojis to see the keywords I wrote for that day?
Not bad. I can see the campfire and s'mores days (🔥), the time we were sick (🌡️), the shift from skating and sledding to biking and swimming, the days when I focused on sewing. In contrast, here are the monthly calendar sketches:
Hmm. I'm primarily interested in episodic memory retrieval and pattern recognition. The emoji summaries might be better at showing repetition because of the constrained vocabulary and the density is neat, but they're not quite expressive enough to resonate with me. I don't like hovering to see the tooltip, but by itself, the emoji doesn't usually have enough information to trigger my memory (either on its own or as part of the episodic context). Emojis and text also open up the possibility of an "on this day" slice, but I can get that with the plain text or by adding an on-this-day.rss to my web-based journal viewer with maybe some kind of private feed in our local network.
The sketches are more fun to flip through, especially now that I'm adding more colour to them. I can show repetition through background colour or icons in my monthly sketches. If I click on these images in my blog post or in my public sketchbook (ex: monthly sketches) using either my laptop or my tablet, I can page through them quickly, like the idea of rapid serial visual presentation 1. (This is great! Now I'm tempted to figure out how to disable all animations for BiggerPicture for just that bit of extra speed, which I think is a matter of tinkering with mediaTransition…) I wonder what it would take to have an automatic "on this day" slice for my monthly calendar sketches. Maybe if I was stricter about using a template so that I can automatically extract boxes from it, or maybe if I can use recognized numbers to figure out the layout… Definitely a someday thing, but could be an interesting challenge.
Do I want to do these emoji summaries long-term? Someone summarized 5 years of diary entries as emojis, and of course there's an app to do this too. Even on a larger scale, though, I think I might just get a few "huh, how about that" moments out of it rather than "wow, that's amazing." I think that if I continue with my daily sketches, that's probably more fun for me to make and review, and it still contains enough information to allow me to map the days to emojis later on if I want to. I can probably discontinue this emoji experiment. I'm glad I explored it, though.
In case you're curious about the Emacs Lisp code for extracting the emoji summaries, here's the function. It looks for the top-level blog post, scans for lines matching "dayNum. (emoji) text summary of day", and then turns that into the appropriate span, including links if there are any.
Like I predicted last month, my days were mostly focused on A+. She enjoyed the half-day pottery wheel summer camp that we experimented with, where she got to practise trimming her pottery and glazing the pieces with a marbled pattern. Aside from the pottery camp, our days were wide open. A+ took the initiative in suggesting places to go, although sometimes I let her know about events or experiences. We went on plenty of adventures.
We went to the temporary Ontario Science Centre pop-ups at Harbourfront and Sherway Gardens. It was fun coming up with more and more things to do at the OSC KidSpark pop-up. We liked pretending to be different Star Wars characters working as supermarket cashiers. We made up a game where I'd tell her "I want to buy a papaya" while holding up something different, like a pineapple. She'd correct me and tell me what to look for ("something a little pointy at both ends"), and I'd go off and find something that matched that description while still being incorrect (like a lemon). We also played another game that involved drawing the items for the grocery list and having the other person figure out what they were. We enjoyed checking out the sensory backpacks, too. (Nice fidget toys!) At the Sherway Gardens pop-up, A+ mostly enjoyed going through the adventure zone and playing with the foam building blocks.
At the CNE, we got caught in a bit of a downpour, but fortunately I had an umbrella and we were wearing Crocs. A+ enjoyed the farm building, and we checked out the kiddie midway after the rain.
A+ liked the spinning rides and the Ferris wheel. She also did a good job of resisting temptations. (Games! Snacks! More rides! More! More!) Thank goodness for math.
We enjoyed petting pretend chickens and throwing snowballs at blazes at the Minecraft Experience. I had fun musing about the tech behind the scenes. We made it out to Biidaasige Park a couple of times, playing with the little dams and the snowy owl stage. We went to the ROM and tried their learning worksheet. A+ biked for an hour to get there one time. We went to the Dragon Festival to watch the lion dance. Some afternoons, we did a bit of swimming, but not much as the weather was starting to cool down.
We also caught a magic show at the library. A+ is now familiar enough with lots of science demonstrations that she can figure out many of the tricks in kid-oriented magic shows, but she's good at not spoiling it for others. I think she might sometimes get a little frustrated by the urge to demonstrate what she can handle so that people can skip ahead to more interesting stuff, which works fine in one-on-one interactions but is harder in a group class. (I remember this feeling! Even now, I'm still figuring out how to drop little signals into a conversation so that people who recognize them can code-switch to higher bandwidth, while trying to avoid overwhelming people…) Maybe this growing awareness of others coupled with the ability to quietly enjoy something more complex inside her head will help her with that.
We spent time with family, and A+ enjoyed playing with her relatives. We had lots of playdates with friends, too.
Indoors, we've been having fun going through the unit lessons in the LEGO Spike Prime kit. At first, A+ just wanted to deliver parts to me. Then she took over some of the coding, and now I've been assigned to the parts department while she builds. "It's not your set anymore, it's our set," she says. Mwahahaha! My evil plan is working.
Looking at what we've enjoyed this summer, I can see that she really likes the things that give us new ways to play with each other, like KidSpark or LEGO Spike Prime. Next would be the places that give her new things to explore even on her own, like Biidaasige's water play features, the pottery camp's lessons, or the CNE's rides. As for me, I appreciate that we can spend on classes where she can take advantage of someone's expertise or specialized equipment, and I wonder what else she might want to explore. A+'s getting more adept at considering a wider palette of places we can go or things we can do, and index cards and sketches help with that. I wonder what else Toronto has along those lines. In terms of play, A+'s drawn to mimicry more than competition, chance, or strong emotion.1 I can see that not just in her role-playing, but also in the way she enters into our activities. I think that's my form of play, too. I like to share her interests, and even with the things I do in the Emacs community, I like to mimic and build on ideas.
Speaking of things I can strew in front of her to encourage mimicry… She occasionally flips through my Noteful notebooks, so it might be interesting to sneak some pedagogical documentation in there, laying out her growth in pictures and sketches so that it's easy for her to comprehend, and maybe sketching out some ideas for things to explore. This can help her see things over time, and it might also help show her the power of taking notes. Next time we go to KidSpark, it could be fun to take pictures of her at the supermarket checkout and then scribble on the images to portray the characters, or maybe we could learn how to draw the interactions as comics.
The summer camp gave me an opportunity to enjoy a lot of focused time. I used it all for consulting, finally finishing some tasks I'd been putting off for weeks. I also had some focus time in the evening. I made a few small improvements to my Emacs News publishing process, tweaking the plain text formatting based on suggestions from readers. I modified my journaling system to be able to see entries from this day across all the different years, copy all the displayed journal entries to the clipboard, and use more consistent CSS. I've been writing a bit more now that I have a Bluetooth keyboard on my bedside table. I've been drawing and doodling a little more, too, and I've been doing colouring sheets at the library.
I finished the Pre-Advanced III course in Simply Piano and started thinking about whether I want to switch to a different app, stop the subscription, or continue with it. I like how Piano Marvel has more advanced lessons, but I'm still getting the hang of timing. Then A+ started exploring the Simply Piano app again, so I guess we'll continue with that. There's still plenty for me to learn before I can fluidly play the Pre-Advanced II arrangements in the Simply Piano library without a lot of practice, so that's fine.
The cherry tomatoes in the garden are doing well. Four tomato plants (Sweet Million variety) give us more cherry tomatoes than we usually eat, so I can either increase my tomato consumption or consider growing three plants next year. Our 11 bitter melon plants are a bit slow, but W- says this is just about the right level of bitter melon production he wants.
Next month will be about settling into virtual grade 4 and figuring out our new rhythms. I'll probably do about 4 hours a week of consulting, saving the rest of the time for writing, drawing, coding, and slowly ramping up EmacsConf (coordination, infrastructure, captions). A+'s becoming more independent and more interesting, thinking about what she wants and using parent-speak to pitch her ideas to me ("We can always buy more [paint sticks]. You wanted to fuel my creativity.") I can't wait to see where this goes.
Considering the format of daily sketches
2025-09-03-06
The iPad is comfortable to draw on in landscape mode, so for the past few months, I've been drawing my daily moments as monthly calendars. Before then, I used to draw a dozen daily sketches on one page. And long before that, daily index cards.
Some people draw fancier sketches. These ones are ArneBab's.
How he started in Aug 2022
Latest one: Aug 2025
I like the varied sizes, colours
Tanny McGregor has a colourful calendar. (5 minutes a day? Hmm…)
Maybe I'll try putting more time into it. Just doodle. It's okay to slow down.
What do I want from my sketches?
Moments I might not have photos of: sketches don't have to be photorealistic, although it might be good to get a better sense of what we feel like, and then what we look like
Playfully stretching my skills
details
shading
colour
Maybe I can try Procreate? Easy layers, colour fill.
Stick with Noteful for now - nice to work with notebooks
I've been regularly drawing daily moments for a
while now. Now that I have a little more time for
myself, I want to think about how I can make this
even better. I think I'd like to start with more colour, especially as the cooler months approach.
(I used to struggle with the desaturated bleakness
of winter, but now I'm beginning to realize I can
add the colour myself.)
I also want to play around with more expressive
faces and figures, and drawing more types of
things. That probably means doing a daily drawing
(or drawings) in addition to my moment of the day,
so I can play with things that might not show up
in our everyday life. I can start by focusing on
cartoony illustrations: simple lines and curves
and colours. It doesn't have to be realistic.
Fancy shading can wait.
It's okay to keep things simple with a monthly
grid. Maybe eventually I'll relax the grid and
play with different sizes. Eventually I might
start to mix in more text, like the way some
people do travel journals. I tend to write a lot
of text in my sketches by default, though.
Starting with the grid forces me to keep text to a
minimum.
Someday I'd like to be able to tell stories in
comic form, like Drewscape does. I can develop an
ear and an eye for stories. Much to learn.
Links for inspiration:
ArneBab's daily sketches: I love that he shares his monthly sketches publicly and is still at it. =)
