Turning 39; life as a 38-year-old
| yearly, review
This might be the earliest I've written an annual review in years. Now that A- is becoming more independent, I've been slowly reclaiming time for myself. We'll see how it goes!
I feel like we grew so much this year. We've shifted to spending a lot more time outside, trying to slow down the progression of A-'s nearsightedness. It's been easy to do that with fine weather and plenty of playdates. A- enjoyed playing with dolls and tea parties with her friends at the playground. I'm happy to keep them well-stocked with chalk and flower petals for colourful potions and soups. We had a lot of flexibility thanks to her virtual kindergarten teacher, who was all right with us pretty much spending the whole day playing outside. A- continued to have fun reading and doing math, diving into graphic novels such as the Wings of Fire series and the comic guides of Beast Academy Level 2. She also enjoyed using math to explore entrepreneurship, setting up her first lemonade stand. (CoVID-safe: she sold bottled water and powdered juice packets.) She's also starting to get interested in typing and in writing cursive. (So fancy!)
We finally gave her the go-ahead to watch movies on weekends and other special occasions. Cinderella, Tangled, and Frozen have been her favourites. She loved the floor-length gown I sewed her. We've been memorizing song lyrics, and doing a lot of pretending. It's all good.
W- has taken over most of the cooking because we're usually out playing in the afternoon. A-'s interested in helping in the kitchen, so we do some of that together. She also enthusiastically helps with W-'s house projects. We're all picking up practical life skills. She's growing so much. I need to remember to keep challenging her!
While supporting this whirlwind of learning, I've been able to squeeze in a bit of consulting. I learned more about automating things with Python, and I also enjoyed being able to hand over my Javascript prototypes to other team members who could deal with things like meetings or fiddly CSS.
I also really appreciated working with a larger team of volunteers for last year's EmacsConf. We managed to get most of the videos captioned in time for broadcast, which was neat! I'd like to try that again this year. I see all sorts of inspiring posts in the process of compiling Emacs News each week, so I'm sure there'll be plenty to talk about at EmacsConf this year.
I've been working on few other tech improvements here and there. I upgraded my Lenovo ThinkPad X220T to 16GB of memory, so it feels a little snappier. I got a SuperNote A5X mostly for drawing on, and I love it. (In fact, I wrote this on the A5X.) I included A-'s interests in the typing website I made for her. It's nice to be able to make these little improvements.
For fun, we picked up cubing last October–even A-, who can often solve a 3x3 cube faster than I can. It's a compact way to exercise memory, spatial thinking, and fine motor skills, so I'm all for it. I average about a minute for a solve. If I practise, maybe I'll get to sub-45 seconds.
Drawing is lots of fun too. I've been really enjoying exploring thoughts and doodling stuff around me. Maybe I'll end up blogging more as well!
So yeah, all in all, a pretty good year.
Last year, I wrote that I wanted to:
- support and document A-'s learning: This worked out really well. I reused the spreadsheet I made for junior kindergarten so that I could organize my journal observations according to the four frames used in Ontario's kindergarten program. Grade 1 will be more subject-oriented, and I look forward to figuring out how to keep following A-'s interests while organizing the observations in a way that would be helpful for the teachers.
- plant more flowers: A- has loved being able to pick flowers pretty much every day for giving to us or making pretend soups. Dahlias, dianthus, marigolds, mums, poppies, alyssum, bachelor's buttons… so many to choose from!
- read and draw: I've been able to draw during some of A-'s playdates and while waiting for her to wake up. Progress is being made.
- keep my priorities straight: having a bit more me time makes it easier for me to focus on A- when she wants it to be her time.
Next year will probably be all about adapting to grade 1 and A-'s developing capabilities. We'll continue to focus on spending time outside, and we'll see how that goes.
Blog posts
Aside from emacs-news and weekly reviews:
- Emacs:
- Started learning how to interactively debug Javascript in Emacs with Indium
- Defining generic and mode-specific Emacs Lisp functions with cl-defmethod
- Coverage reporting in Emacs with Buttercup, Undercover, Coverage, and a Makefile
- Using the wgrep package in Emacs to rewrite grep results from lots of files
- EmacsConf backstage: picking timestamps from a waveform
- EmacsConf backstage: chapter markers
- Adding little nudges to help on the EmacsConf wiki
- Re-encoding the EmacsConf videos with FFmpeg and GNU Parallel
- Thinking about Emacs community maintenance
- Why I Love Emacs - from Bob Oliver
- Other tech:
- Parenting:
- Life:
- Reviews:
Sketches
- Parenting
- 2021-08-17a Mama, I want to play with you #parenting #challenge #play.jpg
- 2021-08-19b Menu of activities #parenting #play .jpg
- 2021-09-15 I feel blah #parenting.jpg
- 2021-10-04 Sleep challenges #parenting.jpg
- 2021-12-27a Planning for time with A- #parenting.png
- 2022-01-20 Playing with fractions #math.png
- 2022-04-17 Outside #parenting #planning #outside.png
- 2022-07-27 Things to remember during challenging behaviour #parenting #emotions.jpg
- 2022-07-29b Learning at home and in the neighbourhood #parenting #education #homeschooling.png
- 2022-07-29d What does A- like to cook #cooking.png
- 2022-07-31a A- feels great when… #parenting #happiness.png
- School:
- 2021-09-19 Senior kindergarten #kindergarten #parenting #school.jpg
- 2021-09-20 Figuring out virtual kindergarten #parenting #school #kindergarten.jpg
- 2021-09-22 Senior kindergarten plan #parenting #kindergarten #school.jpg
- 2021-10-02 Virtual kindergarten - things to try #parenting #kindergarten #school.jpg
- Drawing for fun:
- Life:
- 2021-08-09 37 to 38 #yearly #review.jpg
- 2021-08-18a What do I want to learn #planning #learning.jpg
- 2021-08-21 Preparing for my midlife crisis #planning.jpg
- 2021-12-12c Refocusing #planning.jpg
- 2021-12-14b Making the most of my discretionary time #planning.jpg
- 2021-12-19 Waste.jpg
- 2021-12-20a Making the most of the moment #planning #kaizen.jpg
- 2022-07-30a I feel great when #happiness.png
- Emacs:
- 2021-12-12a EmacsConf 2020 2021 2022.jpg
- 2021-12-12 Parts leading towards EmacsConf 2022.jpg
- 2021-12-13b Coordinating captions.jpg
- 2021-12-15 Emacs community maintenance #emacs.png
- 2021-12-16a Possible video workflow.jpg
- 2021-12-16b EmacsConf - things I dislike, things I like.jpg
- 2021-12-18a Excavating my accumulated Org notes #organization.jpg
- Tech:
- 2021-12-13a Revisiting laptop question.jpg
- 2021-12-14a Writing workflow.jpg
- 2021-12-14c Services on my VPS #tech.jpg
- 2021-12-14d Phone, laptop, VPS #tech.jpg
- 2022-07-25 Trying the Supernote A5X.png
- 2022-07-26b SuperNote for now #sketching #supernote.jpg
- 2022-07-29a Getting the hang of drawing on the Supernote A5X #sketching #supernote.jpg
Time
| Category | 2020-2021 % | 2021-2022 % | Diff % | h/wk | Diff h/wk |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Sleep | 31.9 | 35.7 | 3.8 | 59.9 | 6.4 |
| Personal | 5.6 | 7.3 | 1.7 | 12.3 | 2.9 |
| Discretionary - Play | 0.3 | 1.0 | 0.7 | 1.8 | 1.2 |
| Business | 1.8 | 2.2 | 0.4 | 3.7 | 0.7 |
| Unpaid work | 4.5 | 4.6 | 0.1 | 7.7 | 0.1 |
| Discretionary - Family | 0.4 | 0.5 | 0.1 | 0.8 | 0.1 |
| Discretionary - Social | 0.1 | 0.1 | -0.0 | 0.1 | -0.0 |
| A- | 45.1 | 42.3 | -2.8 | 71.0 | -4.8 |
| Discretionary - Productive | 10.3 | 6.4 | -3.9 | 10.8 | -6.6 |
Huh, that's interesting. We shifted to being outside more often, so I haven't been bribing A- with screentime in order to have some coding time (Discretionary - Productive time down). She's happy to read more independently now (A- time down), so I've been able to set a bedtime for myself and start settling down for sleep at a reasonable time (Sleep up), and I sometimes have breakfast by myself while waiting for her to finish reading (Personal - Routines up). From time to time, I can even do a bit of reading myself (Discretionary - Play up). W-'s handling almost all the cooking since we're out on playdates, but I've shifted more chore time towards picking up, cooking, and doing errands, so the time I spend on household stuff (Unpaid work) is still about the same. This year has felt pretty good.
It would be nice to have more time for working on personal projects, but I don't know how that would fit into our current rhythms. I don't want to stay up late, and A- doesn't want me to be on my laptop while waiting for her to wake up. So I'll probably focus on writing and drawing for a little while, since I can do that early in the morning. I just have to pick coding projects that pique her interest, like when I made a typing practice website based on her favourite books. Other things can wait.
Let's see what the next year brings!